Thursday, September 19, 2013


Two great marriage events coming your way.

 

First, we have a six-week Art of Marriage study starting October 6th, from 5 to 6:30pm, for six consecutive Sunday evenings.  For more information, contact us go sign up at http://islandbaptistartofmarriage.eventbrite.com

Second, the Weekend to Remember is fast approaching.  It will be the weekend of November 8-10th at the Lakeway Best Western in Bellingham.  Roger and I have attended this event, yearly, for about fourteen years.  It is incredible.  For more information on this event, go to www.familylife.com and look for marriage events.
Hope to see you at one event or another!

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

The Intimacy of Prayer


The Intimacy of Prayer

I would like to start out this morning by reading James 5: 13-16

 Is any one of you in trouble? He should pray. Is anyone happy? Let him sing songs of praise. Is any one of you sick? He should call the elders of the church to pray over him and anoint him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise him up. If he has sinned, he will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

 At the end of July my family and I returned from Staff Conference for Campus Crusade for Christ at Fort Collins, CO. We were with about 5,000 other missionaries from Cru. Every two years all of the Cru staff come together for a time of training, worship, and encouragement. We had several speakers that challenged us in many different ways.

One of those was the value of discipleship. (Priceless)

Many of you here have invested your time and knowledge into others throughout your life. There is no value that can be put on that. People that you have discipled during your life could not walk up to you and pay you any amount of money that would be equal to the value of what you gave to them. When I look back at the people who have discipled me along my path, I can't repay them for what they gave me.

But what I can do is repeat what they taught me. I can duplicate it. I can do for others what they did for me.  And that is something that I have devoted my life to doing. 

For me, I have to say that what captivated me the most during our week at Fort Collins, was the intentional prayer that went on throughout the week. My wife, Tonya, and I pray quite often. We pray together on a daily basis. And, I have always believed that the Lord hears our prayers and answers them. However, this past week gave me a completely new understanding of prayer.  As we were walking back to the dorm after one of the main sessions the Lord impressed on me how intimate our prayers are to Him. How our prayers make Him feel close to us. It was very clear to me at that moment that I had only been going through the motions before. He opened my eyes to the fact that when I pray I’m not simply praying to a distant god that's out there somewhere. I’m actually talking to my best friend. When I pray I'm having a conversation with my best friend who is standing right next to me. He's right here. He is a friend who delights in answering my pleas. But He's more than a friend.

He's my Father. My Abba Father.

He's your Friend. Your Father.

My brain is too small to comprehend how it all works, but I do know that our God loves to spend time with us. The same way I love to spend time with my children. I enjoy every precious moment. My children give me a joy that I can't explain. From the moment they get up to the moment they go to bed. I want to be with them. I want to hold them close to me. Their hugs energize me.

When I put it in that context it became clear to me why we pray. Our Father wants to spend time with us. He wants to spend intimate time with us. This is what brings Him joy. It makes Him happy. It puts a smile on His face. It's why He created us. And in return, in return for our attention, He fills us with His Spirit which gives us a joy that surpasses all understanding.

Philippians 4:4-7 Reads:

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

We don't have to understand every minute detail when it comes to our relationship with the Lord. All we really need to know is that He loves us. And when we love Him in return, that creates a relationship that nothing can tear apart.

Romans 8:35-39 says:

Who can separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered."

   No in all these things we are more than conquerers through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation can separate us from the love that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

I Love my Father. I love my God. And, I want to spend time with Him. Don't you?

We serve a loving God!  We serve a personal God! We serve a mighty God!
Now when I pray, it changes me. It fills me up. It’s no longer something I have to do or should do. It’s something I GET to do. And I look forward to it! I get to talk directly with the creator of the universe and He listens to me. He not only listens, He’s excited to hear from me. What a concept! What a God!

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Do I Really Trust Thee?
"Do you really trust me?" I hear Him say to me.  God often tests our faith...that is what He does.  He refines us.  He takes away and He gives and He watches how we respond. He watches us grow and mature. His goal is to grow us up in Jesus.   I can hear Him say to me:

Do you trust Me to heal those hurt places?
Do you trust Me to heal your marriage?
Do you trust Me to heal all the marriages around you?
Do you trust Me to provide for you?
Do you trust Me with your children?
Do you trust your precious daughter to Me?
Do you trust her future to Me?
Do you trust Me to bring peace where there is none?
Do you trust Me with your friendships?
Do you trust Me with your ministry...My ministry?
Do you trust My timing and My ways?
Do you trust Me with the process of making you resemble My Son?

Most of the time I have to respond, "Yes, I want to trust You unconditionally, but I'm not.  I need You to help me with my doubts, Oh Lord...help me to totally relinquish control!"

How are you doing?  Do you really trust Him?  I pray you have victory in this area of trust.


Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Our Young Lady in Argentina

As a parent, you never are quite fully prepared for all the adventures your children will go through.  I know that I was so excited when Natasha wanted to go on a longer missions trip to serve the Lord.  As we started exploring where she could go, I had all the confidence and courage I needed to help with plans, secure paperwork, send her for the vaccines she would need, help her get packed and buy her tickets.

I thought, "this is great, I have no anxious thoughts, I'm not reluctant to let her leave, I'm sure Scott and Ruth in Argentina will take fine care to see that she is safe".  Then came February 19th, and I started rethinking this whole adventure.  Have Roger and I really prepared her for this three month journey?  Have we taught her all she will need to navigate this trip to Argentina?  I had prayed about each step, with Natasha, with Roger, and with my Lord, of course; yet I watched Natasha go through security, put all her valuables on that belt, walk through that metal detector and put all her jewelry, shoes and bags back together, and I was not comforted.  Then the surreal part; she kept getting smaller and smaller and the details of her shape got fuzzier and fuzzier...it didn't help that by this time, my eyes were all wet.

What was I thinking saying 'yes' to this mission trip?  What was I thinking encouraging her to go?  I just honestly wanted to call the whole thing off.  I know our Lord is in control, I know it!  Sometimes that doesn't help the momentary crushing of the heart as we, as parents, have to let go.  My gut level impulse was to yell, "I'm sorry, I've changed my mind and you can't get on that plane".  What a wimp I was turning out to be!

The car ride back from the airport was quiet and heavy.  Natasha's brothers knew instinctively how much less fun and exciting our lives were about to get without Ms. Hippy Child around.  I just can't complete with her full out energy and zest for life.  Penina, her best friend since first grade, knew instinctively that she would have one less confidant for the next three months.  No one to do spontaneous QFC runs, shoe shopping at Value Village or last minute tea with other girlfriends.  And Josiah, his face told it all.  He had started this courtship with Natasha only a year ago, after five years of friendship, and He was acutely aware of how he would miss her smile and her crazy antics.  We were all grieving.

Nearly two months has passed and I need to tell you that Christ has helped each of us through this adventure.  Each of us has become stronger.  We do understand that she was supposed to go, so we could all grow up in our faith.  Natasha has said the same.  She knows she was supposed to listen to the Lord's promptings and serve elsewhere.  She needed to make this faith her own, and nothing like leaving home to go to a foreign country where you don't speak the language well, to learn to lean into Christ.

I am stronger now.  I know He is teaching me to rely only on Him, not Roger, not Natasha, not on false securities, just on Him.  So, centered once again, I look forward with joy and anticipation to hear all about how God has spoken to Natasha when she returns in May.  Until then, I will keep reading the Word, praying and leaning into Him.